Sis, Don't Be Hidden
His mouth says to you, you know you're my boo. His words sound so good when he says, "She doesn't understand me the way you do that's why I love you so much, you get me."
At what cost are you being his boo? She doesn't understand him because maybe she calls him out on his stuff. You allow your feelings about what you see in him to go quiet because of your own need.
What is your cost for being the secret girl or the side chick? What part of yourself says it's ok to be hidden?
Baby Girl, he hides you because you allow him. He will tell you any negative you will listen to about her because he sees your insecurity and need for him.
Flag on the play!!!
Stop allowing men to hide you and make you feel like you are only worth having half a man just for the sake of having one. No one wants to be alone, but believe me it's better to be BY YOURSELF instead of waiting for someone to decide you are worth spending a few extra minutes with when they can slip away.
Those sneaky moments when he says all the right things, does all the right things, makes you feel like he really loves you for just a little while before returning to his life that he confidently displays in front of friends and family.
Flag on the Play!
Where is your Worth? Where is your self love? You deserve so much more. You shine bright like a diamond and a DIAMOND CAN'T BE HIDDEN. Find your worth and value. BE GOOD TO YOU.
Learn to love yourself.
When we learn to be good to SELF, we can recognize when others aren't being good to us.....When we learn to treat ourselves better, we can attract a better character of people into our lives.....SHINE BRIGHT BABY GIRL......
Originally Published 11/5/2016
Lynette M BradshawI help single Christian women restore their life after trauma by transformation of their emotions, mindset and self-awareness using faith-based principles.Best Selling Author | Speaker | Coach Visit The StorePlease leave your comments, Sign up for Blog Notifications, Share The Blog and Come back again
2 Comments
Nov 10, 2016, 6:58:37 AM
Lynette Bradshaw - I am so glad You stopped by Theresa. It makes me feel good to know God led you hear. No matter how long it takes us to learn to love ourselves, when we get there, It is simply amazing. I know your story, as I have walked the journey. Our children have seen so much and now as we walk daily learning to allow God to love us and loving ourselves, they shall see greater.
My daughter is my WHY. I purpose in my heart to be the example of self love, weakness that gets up and self worth. I am proud of you for stepping into what you deserve. God has great things for you. Your life is just beginning and I would love for you to come back and share with me the elevation that God is bringing you into.
Thank you for taking the time to comment on the blog. It is greatly appreciated.
Nov 10, 2016, 3:19:56 AM
Theresa Mosby - I stumbled across you. I think what you are doing is so amazing. Some of the things you say, I feel like you are speaking directly to me. I never knew how to love myself until recently, and I am so mad at myself that I stayed in bad relationships for so long. I am now 51 and single, and yes I get lonely but I will not settle for less. I have to love God and myself before I can genuinely love anyone else. And you Lynette, its funny that I found you because I tell my daughter who is 22 years young that she must love herself always at all times. I also have a son who didn't know how to love himself, I had to instill in him self love. My kids saw me in bad relationships, they didn't understand why I stayed so long....simple I didn't know what love was and I didn't know how to love myself. I loved my man more than I loved myself or my children, my man always came first even before God. Now I know better, now I know how to love God first and then myself. I'm teaching my children and grandchildren how to love God first and then themselves. Thank for all do to help others and teaching them their self worth. You are truly an amazing woman. I will invest in your books, I'm so excited to learn more about loving God and myself.